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Monday, 27 May 2013

The Reality of life Part 8:Oh!My English!people will laugh you when you speak or write worst in english.

Now i cant sleep so i want to share something with you, Do you know One of the problem  in my country is some of our people shy to write or speak in English?bcos they feel shy when they speak not well and worry people will laugh at them .that is the reality of life here .The problem is people here love to bluffing each other when you write or speak in english worst.Please lahhh people dun do so, why not just be cool relax and trying to support your friend to speak or write in english or just relax talk in english with your friend even you think they are speak worst and please help them feel comfortable and confidence to speak or write in english so that your friends have confidence in themselves.Your support needed to people like them ..

Well Do you feel shy to speak or write in English??Ya me too?LOL but i just keep writing and sometimes keep speak in english with people even i know it was worst..who cares (<_>)Oh!!My English!

English is one of our 2nd language besides Malays Language.Its actually compulsory to practice in some of University in Malaysia like "UITM" .Well mostly my blog i wrote in English because my main purpose write blog is to sharing not only in my own country but with all people around the world ..I know maybe my English is not like US or "YOU" but at least i learn and Im happy blogging because from writing i can learn day of the day about English word .well actually its a good starting.Honestly i dun  speak and writing english well but at least i learn and try (!_!) and Honestly from blogging i still look at the dictionary at certain words or sentence that i dun know and from blog also i learn to read some of article that before i was lazy to read any info or article whereas all info we can get only with "ONE" Click.well its call technology without boundary.
Why i need to keep learn writing and speak in English that is because it can help me to memorize back all the english word..This is also to back up my day that always used my own bahasa..so if i always use my own bahasa, my worry is i forgot how to speak in english..

So the point here dun worry to do something badly.Like write blog in english even you got friends laugh at you and tell you "Oh!My!English"Dun worry just keep learning everyday!at least one day we can teach our next generation and we can teach them English during them growing at home.At least one day if my son or daughter ask "Mommy what "rumah"in english at least i can answer .LOL..its a true there still some of people dun know how to read or speak in english. When their kids ask "mom what is this?" they hard to explain to their kids its may cause of frustration to their kids.to those dun understand my english im SORRY and to those who trying to understand, Thank You ^_^but dun worry i still use a very simple english words that make you easy to understand ehehhe..

I got one blogger friends definitely not from here but im thankful of her cos that she's comment and told me that she's like what i write"Thank You for the support".If she's dun understand she's trying to open her own dictionary and try to understand what i was write. but so far she's still understand what i was write eheh..Thank You Launna I really love ur blog too..because its all about a reality of life and what actually we facing everyday.i Love what you share with people and i will always visit your blog to get some more inspiration bout feeling, emotion,and life. visit her blog at http://lettersfromlaunna.blogspot.com/
Thnxs for your letters ^_^

Lets back to the point sometimes we dun do things because we're not sure we can do them well. We feel that we're not in the mood and feel shame to speak or write in english, so we put it off or keep waiting when will the right time we suppose to speak or write.After the times come to speak we speechless dun know how  to speak.But if we practice every day at least we have confidence to speak with others even its not very well actually.we call it here "At least".even we use sabahan english also can bah."can bah if you" ahahaha...

I remember one of my Lecturer said Mr. salman Oh!My god!i forgot his name.LOL..if i turn back the time and he know i forgot his name Damn!maybe his will hit me wif the book on my head LOL..
He said" Its ok however you pronunciation in english as long as people understand you even not all but "at least".

Ok lets continue  to the reality of life. I write blog in english.maybe its a bad starting , maybe u dun understand but who cares" ahahha...because if you keep worry bout you writing this phenomenon is  call "writer's block". A mental barrier seems to set in the prevents a writer from writing. The "Block" means lack of self-motivation or self confidence occurs .Actually not you cant write but because you think you cant write well. So the cure for writer's block and also lack of self motivation is simple, the cure is to go ahead and speak or write badly..until finally you can do it yourself.

The key to  writing is just start to typing in english anything , well it maybe can be the worst thing you have ever written or spoke but it doesn't matter because all good writing or speak begins with terrible first efforts.You need to start by getting something. I know some of you love blogging but you dun know how and when and where need to start?its ok just do something bad 1st before you become perfect maybe its will take time but at least you already done one of your favorite hobby and it will make you smile and make you busy sometimes and blog also can make you forget some of your problem that is the best part of writing when you trying to focus with your writing...am i right?its a gud thing bout a blog and that is why i love blog^^

We are often afraid to do things until we're sure we will do them well. do you think write and speak in english is worth for yourself?if you think yes it worth to doing badly 1st..ahahah..like me..actually im doing badly in my writing but what to do I love do dis.LOL at least at the same time i keep learning write in English (<_>).If i have a gud things to share i share with you..if i got nothing means im quite from write something or maybe im busy with my work.(!_!)

Oh!It goes with my job as well sometimes i feel "reluctant" because i dont feel that i have a good or strong in it . my mind always say "Not today" but how i cure for that is to decide to do it anyway even its a little things have done or its a bad run actually ahahh  but at least we do something of the day than nothing.
sometimes i dun feel like running now so i motivate myself every morning i go out and run slowly in such lazy but at least i have do something.By the end of the run, i notice that it become enjoyable :D

Enough with bout my lazy day bout my job..

So If you like blogging and not motivate to write something just decide to do badly.and then enjoy what happens to you once you into the process..and read it one by one i assure you , you will smile what you have been write and read.LOL...

Actually this Message is for children outside there..ahah..(<_>)
Even it a worst at the beginning

Keep learn and study

We need help and support from our surrounding ..
 Pardon me if i got wrong spelling cos i feel sleepy while writing..LOL .Actually its too late and i cannot sleep..so now its time to zzzzzzzZZZZ..tomorrow need to wake up early morning, give my mom medicine, prepare her breakfast then just can go to work...(Z_Z)
Mesti ada yang tidak suka duck lips ni kan eheh tp ndak apa lah sekali sekala ja mau meriah kan suasana atu kasi panas2kan keadaan ahahhaha...Muahh lah sama yang sporting tu ehheeheh...


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Saturday, 18 May 2013

The Reality of life part 7:Why life so complicated?

How do you describe bout life?for me life is either u live in good or bad. To those who never feel grateful will assume this life is too cruel to them...sometimes i feel it too (<_>)really..sometimes i feel this life is not fair..that's mean i have 30% feel not grateful oh!my God.I'm sorry to have this feeling. (<_>)Well life not always easy there's will be ups and down..Life will bad when every time we feel down,feel so hard ,feel so complicated,feel depressed,feel not satisfied, feel sucks,feel not been appreciated all that.A good thing in life is when we feel good,feel sense of honor,feel the love,feel have been respect..ehh macam-macam lah bah yang bagus ni as long as u feel happy..isn't?

What makes me feel complicated?
Last sunday my mom admit in hospital ..12th May 2013,actual date for operation 13th May 2013.Actually i need to write full of the date my mom admit because every time come to see Doctor for an appointment they always asked  "when your last mom operation or admit hospital?"so i can refer here (^_^).They asked like they dun keep any notes or record the date of my mom admit..
Ok just skip bout that .Now lets talk about what made me felt so depressed here, when i see my mom hand..OMG!look at that (!_!)


Oh my God! you see, you see..what the hell they have been done?they inject the blood until Blood bruises in my mom arms..this is suppose not to be happen..what the hell nurse have been done?are they know how to inject the blood?OMG STRESS STRESS STRESS!!!!!!so pity my mom (<_>) she's too old ,77years old.They suppose to be take care of my mom..(!_!)NOT LIKE DIS!Simply inject my mom hand.Tiada kena ajar bagus2 ka MOI,Aunty!ee tekanan saya tengok.

Oh! Life!why you sooo cruel (!_!)
In this life also you need to cook to continue your life. Why need to cook?so complicated lah..aiyaaaaaaa..malassss bahhh....BUT if don't cook you will feel hungry..(!_!)you will die if you dont eat..if you dont eat you will no energy to work, if no work you have no money, than if no money? how you can buy a food..if no food no eat ..haiyaaaa Dieee loooo... (LOL) our people said "aiyaa mati lah macam ni..................".

But before you think this life  is sooooo complicated i love to share my recipe of the day with you.My Recipe called "Ikan Rebus"ehehheeheeheh....senang saja bah eheh..saya tahu kamu semua pun pandai tapi saya mau share dengan orang putih saja bah ni recepi sbb orang kita sini suda banyak yang tau ehhehe..

1st you need Red onions,Onions,Tomato,Ginger..

After that mix all of them

Put some Green chilli

a little bit Oil,and put all the ingredients.Wait until the smell out..


Then Put the fish inside,makesure dun put water 1st, lets fried it 1st in another 3minutes before puts some water.After that then you put the water inside within  2 glass.Ta daaaa its done ehhehehe...its my simple recipe only.If you think u dun like it better dun follow but for sure if you follow dis recipe ermmm its feel yummy..cos its a good not too much fat cos we put some water to less the oil.

 Nah dis things also make life so complicated..aiyaaa why like this..i think i already keep it nicely just now..haizzzz...(!_!)

 Than need to keep it nicely back...haizzzz...stress stress stress...(!_!)

After eat you need to wash plates, glasses and all those things..if not your sister or your mom ,dad will scold you..or instead you will got sore eyes..eheh..haizz..dengan perasaan malas saya pun cuci piring...(!_!)cry cry cry..no no no...



After wash it than come a new one that need to wash again aiyaaaa...oh!! God help me why must wash those things never finish...i tell you lah people this attitude suppose to be cannot be practice.After you used your glass or plate please wash it yourself dun wait other people to wash it for you..its a really bad attitude and makes other people life complicated you know!erm..dengar tu..(<_>)



Nah this things lagi. After wash those plate and glasses then its time  to throw all those garbage..Eeee dirty i dun like it, dun like the smell....then, arghh soo hottt outside there...eeeeeeeeee all this is complicated..all we dun like to dooo~~~~(<_>)!

Nah kepada ibu-ibu yang ada anak lagi lah complicated.No time to sleep, busy look after for baby.makan minum,cuci baju diorg,,,ee stress kan ibu-ibu..ehehhe..tapi sabar saja lah ya..just keep smilling..tarik napas panjang2 dan smile..uhuh (<_>) 

sometimes people criticize us  also make us stress!rite people!eheheh..

Thats is complicated life for me as an ordinary people.But what do you think bout a rich people?They dun need to cook, they dun need to wash plate and glasses.do you think they dun have complicated time?dun you think they always happy?they life maybe easy no need to do what i have done in my list as above.They eat easy, medical treatment easy but i'm pretty sure they have been a complicated time .so lets check it out:

If you rich you will:
-Husband will too enjoy,spend a lot time  at outside wif friends and other gurl (cheng cheng)we call it "nah tumbuh tanduk suda"ahahahaha...but yalah not at all but pretty sure its make wife at home feel complicated,stress and always be alone (!_!)uhuh...
-Yeah maybe you rich but maybe you have a lot of debt.bah sabar saja lah..gara2 mau senang sanggup mengutang.You will not feel it now but soon you need to pay back all your debt so that time you head will spinning around..but at least you are rich now ..who cares rite?uhuh
- Children feel neglected by parents due to busy with own job.Children become stressfull,less of love and care from parents.
-Rich people sometimes act like a jerk. If they want it the will get it but in a wrong way"Sometimes, and not all of you"kalau kamu terasa im sorry,goodbye jalah..bah faham-faham saja lah kamu..tahu jugak tu kamu.
-If they are boss sometimes people dun like them .people say they are
prejudice.(!_!)
-If they buy and use diamond people said "She's used society money" (!_!)sakit telinga dengar oo..bikin panas eheh...
-If they are Popular/ artist Paparazi always keep follow and chasing.oh!no privacy time (!_!)uwahahah..(!_!), Lots of controversy, gossip,rumors etc.

Actually there's a lot of things what make people rich feel complicated.But im lazy to tell you now ehhehe...(!_!)complicated jugak!

Oh!damn why life so complicated..you poor or you rich..still got the own complicated time.

So my dearest reader when u have a complicated time my advise are:
-Always be :-)
-Grateful
- patient
-Smile
-don't too demanding
-Take time for Calm down for awhile
-Dance Like Gangnam Style (LOL)
-Go to sports
-Relax and cool
-Go to SPA
-PRAY PRAY and PRAY to GOD

And what you don't:
If u have complicated time please don't (O_O) :-
-Eat too much
-Spending a lot for shopping.Its call wasted
-Drink alcohol too much.instead you will got heart attack.OMG..So NEVER!
-Smoking
-Jump from 10 floor of shopping malls building.it's a sin.

Nah you read this post also u already feel depressed and complicated ehheehhe..me too write this things also feel complicated because once i've list all of them i just know ,in our life there's a lot of complicated things and time...eeee stresssss!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Why not i just become a princess????but i think become a princess also have a complicated time..Only the princess know it.so dun ask me!because im not a princess eheheehehe..


but i'm born in a ordinary life..
ITS OK people, if our life like this.yes its look so complicated..but those things make us mature and can stand alone without hope so much from others.so just keep smilling and patient.Pray, God will always besides us.

So just keep reading ya for my next post ehhehehe...please dun't feel complicated right now..you already finished read this post...continue to read my next post.so until we meet again :D all those what i write is what i feel and what i see from others people life. so its a true...if not a true anggap saja ia masuk telinga kanan keluar telinga kiri..sooo happy lunch hour..today im not work just at home spend time with my parents, look after my parents (^_^)honestly felt  bored at home but what to do "selagi ibu kita ada kita harus berkhidmat untuk menjaga mereka"thats is your responsible as a daughter or son. Parents is our 1st priority.understand!so c u when i c u.^^

♥♥♥♥♥Lovesmereadme Wawakyoko in The House ♥♥♥♥♥

Wednesday, 1 May 2013

Ego May destroy your relationship

Some of people dun realize that they are in "Ego"Mood..Bcos they only think bout them self . People like this always think they are always right.Ego is always happen in any relationship.Sometimes Ego take a short and long time to ease.But do you think with keep egoist in urself can put the things rights?.its wrong.The things will never go rights when you just keep Ego and Anger inside.

They said in relationship must be have tolerate.Yes its right but once of our partner still insist to be "Ego" what the better thing you should do..Just Listen and Keep quite.wait and sit on the table and eat the pringle and reading..until the time move and the world end...

I just keep wondering why people should make their life more complicated with anger and Ego..Until when you just keep ego that much wasting your time and energy.why cannot fix the problem and create the happiness again..What is so difficult you think cannot make it. Except you decided dun want to fix it..but if you really dun want to fix it why dun come clean and telling the truth bcos this matter there's need some clarification to make others understand rather than stay with full of lie...

Normally people never realize until they lost someone because when you turn back people who that asked for your forgiveness  , who asked for your happines back, your life back  was giving up and will leaving.Do you want that way??

To those realize, they will think this fighting and ego is are bullshit and really useless.They rather asking for the forgiveness, step more closer with their partner and rather choose live in happiness than rather stay in fighting.Because this person really appreciate the moment their together, remember the memories together rather than people who never realize just keep ignoring others.Please dun do that because every time you keep ignore people the more you will far away from your partner.



Whats cause of Ego:
-He feel his handsome or good looking maybe his will got better than his partner now
-He think money/career 1st than her..
-He think his a rich..ego pun lebih2
-His busy with his friend and sport
-He think his still want to enjoy or enjoy choose many of gurl..arghh wasting time, energy and money
-He think his got everything and than never think bout his partner. got partner and no partner is same.no effect to him..
-He think his still young.padahal berumur suda..so his said "nanti2 lah masi awal" adeh deh tolong lah sedar diri tu tua suda ermmm...(<_>)
-Lastly ofcourse lah memangnya suda kamu ego memang itu lah penyebabnya segala kehancuran.

THATS FOR MAN..SAME GOES TO GURL OSO LAH...but normally gurl will easy to realize & calm down than a man...cis mau di pujuk2 lagi...lelaki lah pujuk perempuan..jangan jadi lelaki kalau begitu rendah lah sifat kamu..
well guys if you dun want me to call you like this lower your ego to your partner..actually same goes to gurl also ok..try to fix your problem with your love 1..i tell you really wasting time .melainkan kamu dua suda tidak suka satu sama lain..then terus terang lah berpisah lah dengan cara bagus,jangan gantungkan hubungan. x bagus untuk diri masing2...makes the life sample with word "COME CLEAN".


Appreciate what you have today. Happiness will never come to those who never appreciate what you have got until someday you will regret what you have been choose.so Moral of the story lowers your Ego, try accept the forgiveness, build back better relationship.Cos im sure if you still insist with you Ego someday you will regret this even you still say "I have everything, arghh I dun care, its ok its alright.i dun need her or his in my life".but im sure you will still regret it.Fix it before too late because"Ego" is d only to destroy your relationship.So stop from being "Ego"its simple.. just give a hand to ur partner and so that there's no regret in your life.

Why we should ask for forgiveness:
-Forgive the more beautiful than revenge
-you will more better,  peace and more calm.
-Bcos maybe you not realize, you angry with your partner but dun you ever think your partner will pray for you every time situation like this.so forgiveness is the medicine of relationship.(kesian bah si kawan suda lah ko buat dia macam tu dia doakan lagi ko.jadi berlembut lah hati antara satu sama lain)
-life more sweet..bila sweet muka pun sweet , bila muka sweet ,tau apa?itu lah rahsia awet muda... ^_^


You choose this 1 :Better like this..life cheerful


or Than Like this full of sadness and hurting each other :(
(A DAY WITHOUT LAUGHTER WITH YOUR PARTNER IS A DAY WASTED)

and i getting boring with people who really Ego inside ...plssss laaaaa...(<_>)
 

So until we meet again ya..just keep reading..

♥♥♥♥♥Lovesmereadme Wawakyoko in The House ♥♥♥♥♥

Trip to Miri, Sarawak.

Hi everyone Long time no see..oh!..(<_>)
Its a been long time uhhh and i miss it to write after a been while im so busy with myself... Buat2 busy sendiri ja..eheh....

How are you all or sabahan said "Bah apa khabar kamu semua"? (<_>)

This is my another travel trip in 15-18 March 13..well im soo bored with just stay in KK plus with working,working and working..so its not wrong when sometimes spent ur time with travel to see other place.

This is my 1st time visited Miri. Some of sabahan belief when u 1st time visit the place we need to kiss the earth this is to prevent urself  from sick or no any bad things happen with you..pls dun ask me why?cos i also keep wondering everytime i asked my mom why?she's never answer me .paling2 she's said "DUN ASKED" OMG..pain inside with the answer.Anyone know the answer y? "kampunan ni ndak tau jawapan,haiz!" (<_>) ahahah.../LOL...in our sabahan meaning "jgn lupa cium tanah nanti keteguran oo"

Actually this is not really in plan cos our plan just want to meet my friend in Bintulu..Well we stay in Miri 3 night 4 days..its a long holiday beb as usuall..but i tell you lah the place quite boring but met old friend can ease the boring time...jgn mara ya org Miri ok jgk bah..Miri..peace country while rich with of Gas and Oil... :D

1st Day arrived Miri we dinner here..what the name of this place aa i forgot..sorry to say lah ehhehe...
After Having a dinner well as usual went to Karaoke for awhile..just test Karaoke in Miri..How the feeling. So far sound ok ok lah but still KK karaoke still d best :D. i like the  wireless microphone but the big problem is its hard to select the song because the song title and singer selection is not organize well.. "bertabur bah" (<_>) @>----@>

2nd day we went to Bintulu to met friend there..well we dun know which road supposed we need to follow..kami main redah ja..we used old road..the road condition is not really good..uh..landslide at the middle of road Miri and Bintulu need to follow : >


My friend from"U" Mate to Room mate to House mate.Finally we arrived in Bintulu within almost  3 hours from 11am-2pm++..They a bit crazy..they talked non stop and laugh non stop ..biasalah kalau suda lama tidak jumpa ni mulut pun tidak pandai berhenti bercakap..terlalu banyak cerita di simpan di dalam hati so that day is like pupe pupe dayyy...arghhh...ahhahaha..hopefully dun read this 1 lah kan.kalau diorg baca confirm sya kena tiewww niii..kaw kaw..uhuhu..


Bintulu city only got 1 shopping mall uhuh..we can finished walked through it only 15minute than nothing loo...we go back to Miri 5pm..nah dis time we followed new coastal road..Coastal road more better than old road.Coastal road just straight and we arrived Miri less than 3 hours..BUT this road we been experience something scary. Suddenly in the middle of road  our car Lock suddenly OPEN than CLOSE , OPEN than CLOSE...OMG..i thought my friend just play around with us but actually NO...its happen 3 times the SPIRIT play around with us..One of my friend trying talked to the ghost/Spirit.."dun disturb us until we arrived in Miri, Biar lah kami sampai Miri dulu" . You know what happen with my friend we back KK and was falled sick..The spirit followed and disturb in her dream and always call her name...OMG.."Palis-palis aaa"..i feel scary now ody..cos now its 12:21am ..uhh scaryy....(<_>)!
People in Miri and Bintulu lucky they got a big land and a big house...i wonder how many people stay in the house that too big.Kalau sya suda takut tinggal di ruma yang sangat besar ni...and 1 thing i realize every house in Bintulu the got a cute mailbox.. ^__^
3rd day we in Miri we went to Republic Beach .The place where people here can play badminton, net ball, Gym , Swimming, ATV and etc...its very suitable to bring family to enjoy the sunset, beach view, sport ,chit chat with friend while enjoy the food and drink...this place quite nice but 1 thing i dun like is if you want to order the drink you need to walked about 50meters to reached the counter..arghhhhh garu kepala bah pegi order....tiada kutu pun jadi macam ada kutu ja tu kepala ehehheheh....

Nah u need to order the drink inside the building..quite far..
One of the Famous Restaurant in Miri Muara Restaurant.Lalapan food the most famous.the test is quite nice..dun forget to stop by here...with the test of sambal i like...how to find the place just follow the road to Maybank and its near that Maybank area. di belakang Maybank.

I think that old Bus  as in pic been disposed long time ago..no more such old bus  ..but old bus like this in KK is green colour i still remember that uhuhu.....but wonder in Miri its still operating.

From Miri we can drive the car to Brunei..quite near only 10KM follow kuala baram road..aiya kalau saya ada passport hari tu suda saya pegi brunei sekali jalan2 uhuh...malangnya tiada buat passport..before to Brunei Check point you need to pay the toll for 4wheel RM10.00 uhuh..no RM1.00 ya..:D


day 4 my last day in Miri and we enjoyed it..before fly to KK we stoped by to bought souvenir..


Last day Lunch in Miri before leaving :d
ermmm sleepyyy then until we meet again...bah dun forget for election this 5th May...country future is in our hand choose what the best..or choose according to your boyfriend ahhaha...if his choose BN u must choose BN if his choose PKR u must choose PKR also if not your Bf merajuk baru tau ehehe..ndak bah just kidding ok..mana2 kamu orang saja lah.."suka hatiii"ayat yang selalu buat bikin panas ehhehehe..bah its time to sleep..zzzzZZZZZZZ.....


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Monday, 27 May 2013

The Reality of life Part 8:Oh!My English!people will laugh you when you speak or write worst in english.

Now i cant sleep so i want to share something with you, Do you know One of the problem  in my country is some of our people shy to write or speak in English?bcos they feel shy when they speak not well and worry people will laugh at them .that is the reality of life here .The problem is people here love to bluffing each other when you write or speak in english worst.Please lahhh people dun do so, why not just be cool relax and trying to support your friend to speak or write in english or just relax talk in english with your friend even you think they are speak worst and please help them feel comfortable and confidence to speak or write in english so that your friends have confidence in themselves.Your support needed to people like them ..

Well Do you feel shy to speak or write in English??Ya me too?LOL but i just keep writing and sometimes keep speak in english with people even i know it was worst..who cares (<_>)Oh!!My English!

English is one of our 2nd language besides Malays Language.Its actually compulsory to practice in some of University in Malaysia like "UITM" .Well mostly my blog i wrote in English because my main purpose write blog is to sharing not only in my own country but with all people around the world ..I know maybe my English is not like US or "YOU" but at least i learn and Im happy blogging because from writing i can learn day of the day about English word .well actually its a good starting.Honestly i dun  speak and writing english well but at least i learn and try (!_!) and Honestly from blogging i still look at the dictionary at certain words or sentence that i dun know and from blog also i learn to read some of article that before i was lazy to read any info or article whereas all info we can get only with "ONE" Click.well its call technology without boundary.
Why i need to keep learn writing and speak in English that is because it can help me to memorize back all the english word..This is also to back up my day that always used my own bahasa..so if i always use my own bahasa, my worry is i forgot how to speak in english..

So the point here dun worry to do something badly.Like write blog in english even you got friends laugh at you and tell you "Oh!My!English"Dun worry just keep learning everyday!at least one day we can teach our next generation and we can teach them English during them growing at home.At least one day if my son or daughter ask "Mommy what "rumah"in english at least i can answer .LOL..its a true there still some of people dun know how to read or speak in english. When their kids ask "mom what is this?" they hard to explain to their kids its may cause of frustration to their kids.to those dun understand my english im SORRY and to those who trying to understand, Thank You ^_^but dun worry i still use a very simple english words that make you easy to understand ehehhe..

I got one blogger friends definitely not from here but im thankful of her cos that she's comment and told me that she's like what i write"Thank You for the support".If she's dun understand she's trying to open her own dictionary and try to understand what i was write. but so far she's still understand what i was write eheh..Thank You Launna I really love ur blog too..because its all about a reality of life and what actually we facing everyday.i Love what you share with people and i will always visit your blog to get some more inspiration bout feeling, emotion,and life. visit her blog at http://lettersfromlaunna.blogspot.com/
Thnxs for your letters ^_^

Lets back to the point sometimes we dun do things because we're not sure we can do them well. We feel that we're not in the mood and feel shame to speak or write in english, so we put it off or keep waiting when will the right time we suppose to speak or write.After the times come to speak we speechless dun know how  to speak.But if we practice every day at least we have confidence to speak with others even its not very well actually.we call it here "At least".even we use sabahan english also can bah."can bah if you" ahahaha...

I remember one of my Lecturer said Mr. salman Oh!My god!i forgot his name.LOL..if i turn back the time and he know i forgot his name Damn!maybe his will hit me wif the book on my head LOL..
He said" Its ok however you pronunciation in english as long as people understand you even not all but "at least".

Ok lets continue  to the reality of life. I write blog in english.maybe its a bad starting , maybe u dun understand but who cares" ahahha...because if you keep worry bout you writing this phenomenon is  call "writer's block". A mental barrier seems to set in the prevents a writer from writing. The "Block" means lack of self-motivation or self confidence occurs .Actually not you cant write but because you think you cant write well. So the cure for writer's block and also lack of self motivation is simple, the cure is to go ahead and speak or write badly..until finally you can do it yourself.

The key to  writing is just start to typing in english anything , well it maybe can be the worst thing you have ever written or spoke but it doesn't matter because all good writing or speak begins with terrible first efforts.You need to start by getting something. I know some of you love blogging but you dun know how and when and where need to start?its ok just do something bad 1st before you become perfect maybe its will take time but at least you already done one of your favorite hobby and it will make you smile and make you busy sometimes and blog also can make you forget some of your problem that is the best part of writing when you trying to focus with your writing...am i right?its a gud thing bout a blog and that is why i love blog^^

We are often afraid to do things until we're sure we will do them well. do you think write and speak in english is worth for yourself?if you think yes it worth to doing badly 1st..ahahah..like me..actually im doing badly in my writing but what to do I love do dis.LOL at least at the same time i keep learning write in English (<_>).If i have a gud things to share i share with you..if i got nothing means im quite from write something or maybe im busy with my work.(!_!)

Oh!It goes with my job as well sometimes i feel "reluctant" because i dont feel that i have a good or strong in it . my mind always say "Not today" but how i cure for that is to decide to do it anyway even its a little things have done or its a bad run actually ahahh  but at least we do something of the day than nothing.
sometimes i dun feel like running now so i motivate myself every morning i go out and run slowly in such lazy but at least i have do something.By the end of the run, i notice that it become enjoyable :D

Enough with bout my lazy day bout my job..

So If you like blogging and not motivate to write something just decide to do badly.and then enjoy what happens to you once you into the process..and read it one by one i assure you , you will smile what you have been write and read.LOL...

Actually this Message is for children outside there..ahah..(<_>)
Even it a worst at the beginning

Keep learn and study

We need help and support from our surrounding ..
 Pardon me if i got wrong spelling cos i feel sleepy while writing..LOL .Actually its too late and i cannot sleep..so now its time to zzzzzzzZZZZ..tomorrow need to wake up early morning, give my mom medicine, prepare her breakfast then just can go to work...(Z_Z)
Mesti ada yang tidak suka duck lips ni kan eheh tp ndak apa lah sekali sekala ja mau meriah kan suasana atu kasi panas2kan keadaan ahahhaha...Muahh lah sama yang sporting tu ehheeheh...


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Saturday, 18 May 2013

The Reality of life part 7:Why life so complicated?

How do you describe bout life?for me life is either u live in good or bad. To those who never feel grateful will assume this life is too cruel to them...sometimes i feel it too (<_>)really..sometimes i feel this life is not fair..that's mean i have 30% feel not grateful oh!my God.I'm sorry to have this feeling. (<_>)Well life not always easy there's will be ups and down..Life will bad when every time we feel down,feel so hard ,feel so complicated,feel depressed,feel not satisfied, feel sucks,feel not been appreciated all that.A good thing in life is when we feel good,feel sense of honor,feel the love,feel have been respect..ehh macam-macam lah bah yang bagus ni as long as u feel happy..isn't?

What makes me feel complicated?
Last sunday my mom admit in hospital ..12th May 2013,actual date for operation 13th May 2013.Actually i need to write full of the date my mom admit because every time come to see Doctor for an appointment they always asked  "when your last mom operation or admit hospital?"so i can refer here (^_^).They asked like they dun keep any notes or record the date of my mom admit..
Ok just skip bout that .Now lets talk about what made me felt so depressed here, when i see my mom hand..OMG!look at that (!_!)


Oh my God! you see, you see..what the hell they have been done?they inject the blood until Blood bruises in my mom arms..this is suppose not to be happen..what the hell nurse have been done?are they know how to inject the blood?OMG STRESS STRESS STRESS!!!!!!so pity my mom (<_>) she's too old ,77years old.They suppose to be take care of my mom..(!_!)NOT LIKE DIS!Simply inject my mom hand.Tiada kena ajar bagus2 ka MOI,Aunty!ee tekanan saya tengok.

Oh! Life!why you sooo cruel (!_!)
In this life also you need to cook to continue your life. Why need to cook?so complicated lah..aiyaaaaaaa..malassss bahhh....BUT if don't cook you will feel hungry..(!_!)you will die if you dont eat..if you dont eat you will no energy to work, if no work you have no money, than if no money? how you can buy a food..if no food no eat ..haiyaaaa Dieee loooo... (LOL) our people said "aiyaa mati lah macam ni..................".

But before you think this life  is sooooo complicated i love to share my recipe of the day with you.My Recipe called "Ikan Rebus"ehehheeheeheh....senang saja bah eheh..saya tahu kamu semua pun pandai tapi saya mau share dengan orang putih saja bah ni recepi sbb orang kita sini suda banyak yang tau ehhehe..

1st you need Red onions,Onions,Tomato,Ginger..

After that mix all of them

Put some Green chilli

a little bit Oil,and put all the ingredients.Wait until the smell out..


Then Put the fish inside,makesure dun put water 1st, lets fried it 1st in another 3minutes before puts some water.After that then you put the water inside within  2 glass.Ta daaaa its done ehhehehe...its my simple recipe only.If you think u dun like it better dun follow but for sure if you follow dis recipe ermmm its feel yummy..cos its a good not too much fat cos we put some water to less the oil.

 Nah dis things also make life so complicated..aiyaaa why like this..i think i already keep it nicely just now..haizzzz...(!_!)

 Than need to keep it nicely back...haizzzz...stress stress stress...(!_!)

After eat you need to wash plates, glasses and all those things..if not your sister or your mom ,dad will scold you..or instead you will got sore eyes..eheh..haizz..dengan perasaan malas saya pun cuci piring...(!_!)cry cry cry..no no no...



After wash it than come a new one that need to wash again aiyaaaa...oh!! God help me why must wash those things never finish...i tell you lah people this attitude suppose to be cannot be practice.After you used your glass or plate please wash it yourself dun wait other people to wash it for you..its a really bad attitude and makes other people life complicated you know!erm..dengar tu..(<_>)



Nah this things lagi. After wash those plate and glasses then its time  to throw all those garbage..Eeee dirty i dun like it, dun like the smell....then, arghh soo hottt outside there...eeeeeeeeee all this is complicated..all we dun like to dooo~~~~(<_>)!

Nah kepada ibu-ibu yang ada anak lagi lah complicated.No time to sleep, busy look after for baby.makan minum,cuci baju diorg,,,ee stress kan ibu-ibu..ehehhe..tapi sabar saja lah ya..just keep smilling..tarik napas panjang2 dan smile..uhuh (<_>) 

sometimes people criticize us  also make us stress!rite people!eheheh..

Thats is complicated life for me as an ordinary people.But what do you think bout a rich people?They dun need to cook, they dun need to wash plate and glasses.do you think they dun have complicated time?dun you think they always happy?they life maybe easy no need to do what i have done in my list as above.They eat easy, medical treatment easy but i'm pretty sure they have been a complicated time .so lets check it out:

If you rich you will:
-Husband will too enjoy,spend a lot time  at outside wif friends and other gurl (cheng cheng)we call it "nah tumbuh tanduk suda"ahahahaha...but yalah not at all but pretty sure its make wife at home feel complicated,stress and always be alone (!_!)uhuh...
-Yeah maybe you rich but maybe you have a lot of debt.bah sabar saja lah..gara2 mau senang sanggup mengutang.You will not feel it now but soon you need to pay back all your debt so that time you head will spinning around..but at least you are rich now ..who cares rite?uhuh
- Children feel neglected by parents due to busy with own job.Children become stressfull,less of love and care from parents.
-Rich people sometimes act like a jerk. If they want it the will get it but in a wrong way"Sometimes, and not all of you"kalau kamu terasa im sorry,goodbye jalah..bah faham-faham saja lah kamu..tahu jugak tu kamu.
-If they are boss sometimes people dun like them .people say they are
prejudice.(!_!)
-If they buy and use diamond people said "She's used society money" (!_!)sakit telinga dengar oo..bikin panas eheh...
-If they are Popular/ artist Paparazi always keep follow and chasing.oh!no privacy time (!_!)uwahahah..(!_!), Lots of controversy, gossip,rumors etc.

Actually there's a lot of things what make people rich feel complicated.But im lazy to tell you now ehhehe...(!_!)complicated jugak!

Oh!damn why life so complicated..you poor or you rich..still got the own complicated time.

So my dearest reader when u have a complicated time my advise are:
-Always be :-)
-Grateful
- patient
-Smile
-don't too demanding
-Take time for Calm down for awhile
-Dance Like Gangnam Style (LOL)
-Go to sports
-Relax and cool
-Go to SPA
-PRAY PRAY and PRAY to GOD

And what you don't:
If u have complicated time please don't (O_O) :-
-Eat too much
-Spending a lot for shopping.Its call wasted
-Drink alcohol too much.instead you will got heart attack.OMG..So NEVER!
-Smoking
-Jump from 10 floor of shopping malls building.it's a sin.

Nah you read this post also u already feel depressed and complicated ehheehhe..me too write this things also feel complicated because once i've list all of them i just know ,in our life there's a lot of complicated things and time...eeee stresssss!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Why not i just become a princess????but i think become a princess also have a complicated time..Only the princess know it.so dun ask me!because im not a princess eheheehehe..


but i'm born in a ordinary life..
ITS OK people, if our life like this.yes its look so complicated..but those things make us mature and can stand alone without hope so much from others.so just keep smilling and patient.Pray, God will always besides us.

So just keep reading ya for my next post ehhehehe...please dun't feel complicated right now..you already finished read this post...continue to read my next post.so until we meet again :D all those what i write is what i feel and what i see from others people life. so its a true...if not a true anggap saja ia masuk telinga kanan keluar telinga kiri..sooo happy lunch hour..today im not work just at home spend time with my parents, look after my parents (^_^)honestly felt  bored at home but what to do "selagi ibu kita ada kita harus berkhidmat untuk menjaga mereka"thats is your responsible as a daughter or son. Parents is our 1st priority.understand!so c u when i c u.^^

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Wednesday, 1 May 2013

Ego May destroy your relationship

Some of people dun realize that they are in "Ego"Mood..Bcos they only think bout them self . People like this always think they are always right.Ego is always happen in any relationship.Sometimes Ego take a short and long time to ease.But do you think with keep egoist in urself can put the things rights?.its wrong.The things will never go rights when you just keep Ego and Anger inside.

They said in relationship must be have tolerate.Yes its right but once of our partner still insist to be "Ego" what the better thing you should do..Just Listen and Keep quite.wait and sit on the table and eat the pringle and reading..until the time move and the world end...

I just keep wondering why people should make their life more complicated with anger and Ego..Until when you just keep ego that much wasting your time and energy.why cannot fix the problem and create the happiness again..What is so difficult you think cannot make it. Except you decided dun want to fix it..but if you really dun want to fix it why dun come clean and telling the truth bcos this matter there's need some clarification to make others understand rather than stay with full of lie...

Normally people never realize until they lost someone because when you turn back people who that asked for your forgiveness  , who asked for your happines back, your life back  was giving up and will leaving.Do you want that way??

To those realize, they will think this fighting and ego is are bullshit and really useless.They rather asking for the forgiveness, step more closer with their partner and rather choose live in happiness than rather stay in fighting.Because this person really appreciate the moment their together, remember the memories together rather than people who never realize just keep ignoring others.Please dun do that because every time you keep ignore people the more you will far away from your partner.



Whats cause of Ego:
-He feel his handsome or good looking maybe his will got better than his partner now
-He think money/career 1st than her..
-He think his a rich..ego pun lebih2
-His busy with his friend and sport
-He think his still want to enjoy or enjoy choose many of gurl..arghh wasting time, energy and money
-He think his got everything and than never think bout his partner. got partner and no partner is same.no effect to him..
-He think his still young.padahal berumur suda..so his said "nanti2 lah masi awal" adeh deh tolong lah sedar diri tu tua suda ermmm...(<_>)
-Lastly ofcourse lah memangnya suda kamu ego memang itu lah penyebabnya segala kehancuran.

THATS FOR MAN..SAME GOES TO GURL OSO LAH...but normally gurl will easy to realize & calm down than a man...cis mau di pujuk2 lagi...lelaki lah pujuk perempuan..jangan jadi lelaki kalau begitu rendah lah sifat kamu..
well guys if you dun want me to call you like this lower your ego to your partner..actually same goes to gurl also ok..try to fix your problem with your love 1..i tell you really wasting time .melainkan kamu dua suda tidak suka satu sama lain..then terus terang lah berpisah lah dengan cara bagus,jangan gantungkan hubungan. x bagus untuk diri masing2...makes the life sample with word "COME CLEAN".


Appreciate what you have today. Happiness will never come to those who never appreciate what you have got until someday you will regret what you have been choose.so Moral of the story lowers your Ego, try accept the forgiveness, build back better relationship.Cos im sure if you still insist with you Ego someday you will regret this even you still say "I have everything, arghh I dun care, its ok its alright.i dun need her or his in my life".but im sure you will still regret it.Fix it before too late because"Ego" is d only to destroy your relationship.So stop from being "Ego"its simple.. just give a hand to ur partner and so that there's no regret in your life.

Why we should ask for forgiveness:
-Forgive the more beautiful than revenge
-you will more better,  peace and more calm.
-Bcos maybe you not realize, you angry with your partner but dun you ever think your partner will pray for you every time situation like this.so forgiveness is the medicine of relationship.(kesian bah si kawan suda lah ko buat dia macam tu dia doakan lagi ko.jadi berlembut lah hati antara satu sama lain)
-life more sweet..bila sweet muka pun sweet , bila muka sweet ,tau apa?itu lah rahsia awet muda... ^_^


You choose this 1 :Better like this..life cheerful


or Than Like this full of sadness and hurting each other :(
(A DAY WITHOUT LAUGHTER WITH YOUR PARTNER IS A DAY WASTED)

and i getting boring with people who really Ego inside ...plssss laaaaa...(<_>)
 

So until we meet again ya..just keep reading..

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Trip to Miri, Sarawak.

Hi everyone Long time no see..oh!..(<_>)
Its a been long time uhhh and i miss it to write after a been while im so busy with myself... Buat2 busy sendiri ja..eheh....

How are you all or sabahan said "Bah apa khabar kamu semua"? (<_>)

This is my another travel trip in 15-18 March 13..well im soo bored with just stay in KK plus with working,working and working..so its not wrong when sometimes spent ur time with travel to see other place.

This is my 1st time visited Miri. Some of sabahan belief when u 1st time visit the place we need to kiss the earth this is to prevent urself  from sick or no any bad things happen with you..pls dun ask me why?cos i also keep wondering everytime i asked my mom why?she's never answer me .paling2 she's said "DUN ASKED" OMG..pain inside with the answer.Anyone know the answer y? "kampunan ni ndak tau jawapan,haiz!" (<_>) ahahah.../LOL...in our sabahan meaning "jgn lupa cium tanah nanti keteguran oo"

Actually this is not really in plan cos our plan just want to meet my friend in Bintulu..Well we stay in Miri 3 night 4 days..its a long holiday beb as usuall..but i tell you lah the place quite boring but met old friend can ease the boring time...jgn mara ya org Miri ok jgk bah..Miri..peace country while rich with of Gas and Oil... :D

1st Day arrived Miri we dinner here..what the name of this place aa i forgot..sorry to say lah ehhehe...
After Having a dinner well as usual went to Karaoke for awhile..just test Karaoke in Miri..How the feeling. So far sound ok ok lah but still KK karaoke still d best :D. i like the  wireless microphone but the big problem is its hard to select the song because the song title and singer selection is not organize well.. "bertabur bah" (<_>) @>----@>

2nd day we went to Bintulu to met friend there..well we dun know which road supposed we need to follow..kami main redah ja..we used old road..the road condition is not really good..uh..landslide at the middle of road Miri and Bintulu need to follow : >


My friend from"U" Mate to Room mate to House mate.Finally we arrived in Bintulu within almost  3 hours from 11am-2pm++..They a bit crazy..they talked non stop and laugh non stop ..biasalah kalau suda lama tidak jumpa ni mulut pun tidak pandai berhenti bercakap..terlalu banyak cerita di simpan di dalam hati so that day is like pupe pupe dayyy...arghhh...ahhahaha..hopefully dun read this 1 lah kan.kalau diorg baca confirm sya kena tiewww niii..kaw kaw..uhuhu..


Bintulu city only got 1 shopping mall uhuh..we can finished walked through it only 15minute than nothing loo...we go back to Miri 5pm..nah dis time we followed new coastal road..Coastal road more better than old road.Coastal road just straight and we arrived Miri less than 3 hours..BUT this road we been experience something scary. Suddenly in the middle of road  our car Lock suddenly OPEN than CLOSE , OPEN than CLOSE...OMG..i thought my friend just play around with us but actually NO...its happen 3 times the SPIRIT play around with us..One of my friend trying talked to the ghost/Spirit.."dun disturb us until we arrived in Miri, Biar lah kami sampai Miri dulu" . You know what happen with my friend we back KK and was falled sick..The spirit followed and disturb in her dream and always call her name...OMG.."Palis-palis aaa"..i feel scary now ody..cos now its 12:21am ..uhh scaryy....(<_>)!
People in Miri and Bintulu lucky they got a big land and a big house...i wonder how many people stay in the house that too big.Kalau sya suda takut tinggal di ruma yang sangat besar ni...and 1 thing i realize every house in Bintulu the got a cute mailbox.. ^__^
3rd day we in Miri we went to Republic Beach .The place where people here can play badminton, net ball, Gym , Swimming, ATV and etc...its very suitable to bring family to enjoy the sunset, beach view, sport ,chit chat with friend while enjoy the food and drink...this place quite nice but 1 thing i dun like is if you want to order the drink you need to walked about 50meters to reached the counter..arghhhhh garu kepala bah pegi order....tiada kutu pun jadi macam ada kutu ja tu kepala ehehheheh....

Nah u need to order the drink inside the building..quite far..
One of the Famous Restaurant in Miri Muara Restaurant.Lalapan food the most famous.the test is quite nice..dun forget to stop by here...with the test of sambal i like...how to find the place just follow the road to Maybank and its near that Maybank area. di belakang Maybank.

I think that old Bus  as in pic been disposed long time ago..no more such old bus  ..but old bus like this in KK is green colour i still remember that uhuhu.....but wonder in Miri its still operating.

From Miri we can drive the car to Brunei..quite near only 10KM follow kuala baram road..aiya kalau saya ada passport hari tu suda saya pegi brunei sekali jalan2 uhuh...malangnya tiada buat passport..before to Brunei Check point you need to pay the toll for 4wheel RM10.00 uhuh..no RM1.00 ya..:D


day 4 my last day in Miri and we enjoyed it..before fly to KK we stoped by to bought souvenir..


Last day Lunch in Miri before leaving :d
ermmm sleepyyy then until we meet again...bah dun forget for election this 5th May...country future is in our hand choose what the best..or choose according to your boyfriend ahhaha...if his choose BN u must choose BN if his choose PKR u must choose PKR also if not your Bf merajuk baru tau ehehe..ndak bah just kidding ok..mana2 kamu orang saja lah.."suka hatiii"ayat yang selalu buat bikin panas ehhehehe..bah its time to sleep..zzzzZZZZZZZ.....


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