Reality of Life Part 11 :Never ever break the Trust,Because Trust is the best key in relationship to go far.

Hi Guys,im back..Long time no time to write about the reality of life!Im doing fine, and so far so good only busy with life and job , and hey guys! i hope who read this also doing fine..even you are not fine just pretend seems you are fine and everything gonna be fine..OK!

Tonight i want to talk about Never ever break the Trust. What i see, in the world right now, there's a lot of  relationship half way,it just because no more trust in the relationship and no genuine forgiveness to not break the trust again.
What do you understand about the trust in relationship?i'm not expert or professional but for me trust is we have confident and we feel safe with them physical and emotional..Trust is something we build between two people..Trust we feel comfortable with them,we feel they will remain loyal and love you, We trust them whatever they do without question or Why?Trust give peace of Mind between both of You..Your Life Will feel much better without any destruction from outside because of the trust. If there are still have a Trust, your relationship still survive even in the hardest time.Trust is everything in the relationship,Trust is like a diamond,Trust is like a treasure, that we should to look after and take care of.

But Once the trust is broken,what happen? All these time we Trust our spouse but suddenly they broke the Trust?Feel hurt and the impact will remain and will take time to heal.Even they been confessed their  fault but once trust been broken.It will Broke forever and ever..& than, how could they said there's NO MORE LOVE once we dont have the Trust on them again ? Remember who create the problem 1st?Not US, but you men..But why a men blame us again instead they DIDN'T DO initiative ,find a way,how to make their spouse to trust them again .

Once you broke the Trust at the 1st place, So please Never ever break the Trust again, Because Trust is the best key in relationship to go far.When the trust has been broken again,is it possible to repair again because you are worry the things are happen again.You will afraid with the future,so many thinking,what if,what if,how?We will think they will did the same thing again. Thats why, you can't stop from fight because there's  no more trust in relationship but love is still there. Sometimes our spouse explain the things happen like this,but since there's no more trust, we hard to trust is it true or not with the explaination.You see how big the impact once our spouse broke the trust.SO you must take care the name of "TRUST"

But nowadays the reality is trust always been broke, asked for forgiveness but do the mistake again,again and again..
But there's will be a magic in trust is LOVE, If you really love that person. You will never broke the trust again. but if the men broke the trust again and again,Means there's no Love just a sympathy.So we not asked for the sympathy but we ask for Love.you know what i mean?

But It is not easy to rebuild trust but it is possible.He can say " I told you i changed,why don't you trust me?its take more than words men.Trust is not earned by words only,BUT by CONSISTENT DEED AND ACTION.
Trust also can rebuild again with just two word FORGIVENESS & LOVE but must really mean it and really show it the things will never happen again. Both side must be willing to come to the table,and be open, honest & come clean.They also need care enough to want to put effort to make the relationship work again.The best thing the person should admit what they wrong and must be genuinely seek forgiveness and will never do it again, and try not to make the mistake again,and prove that you can be trusted again and not just a word.Make and maintain the Promises!

So gais,remember Never ever break the trust and be honest with Your Spouse.never lie to them because once you lie to them, forever they will remember,and the things will always remembered and always become a question in between 5 Years and 10 Years & ahead;),SO NEVER BLAME A WOMEN. ALL WOMEN LIKE THAT EXCEPT YOUR MOM.

If you tell the truth,you don't have to remember everything.so tell the truth and MUST be HONEST will  not do it again forever..be a good spouse for your Love one.
And it's a reality if you don't break the trust You will have a good relationship and enjoy the beauty of becoming..

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Reality of Life Part 10 : Becarefull with a Women's Instinct.

Hello Beb..
Today we talk about women's instinct. Do you have a women's instinct?For me,yes i do, and i believe mostly all the women have this instinct too.What do you know about a women instinct?do you believe and trust on your own instinct and intuition?How seldom you have this instinct ?
But before that let me tell you what is a women's instinct? for what I've been experience, a women's instinct is the ability to understand something and you can feel deep inside your heart that there's will be something happen or you can feel that something is not right happened. Its either good or bad, but mostly women instinct can feel more into something bad or something shes don't like happen but already happened.

For example if you sense something wrong in your fine relationship, that will be something bad instinct because of your insecurity in relationship .So, this insecurity can lead to confusing with a women instinct and cause us look for things that aren't even there.
So to a Men should understand and please make your women trust on you, so that this bad instinct will not be happen.
Sometimes this bad instinct happen once a man broke the trust in your relationship.

But, sometimes this women instinct can be true. A women better in reading a man facial expression, through tone voice, body gesture,a verbal conversation. By God, a man who hiding something from their poker face, sometimes we know from our intuition, so guys be careful before you hide something. Better don't cheat or tell early ,either at the end you being caught cheated.
This instinct is a good instinct that women should have to protect them from being cheated all the time or being taken advantage.

So women, do you trust on your own instinct as a women?For me in certain thing, we should need  trust this instinct to guide us and to protect us, but sometimes we need to find the answer before we trust our own instinct 100% because  sometimes we fall into false instinct when our emotion too control our mind, that the negative instinct will be occurred.

But, mostly it's true, because a women instinct sometimes created through a man emotional and behind the man poker face.

So Moral of the story yes its true we shall trust our own women instinct. This instinct will teach us how to trust our self but in another word we need to figure it out in our mind and find the evidence to support it.

Thank You for reading until we see next chapter in the reality of life story ;)
Hope God give me more time to write about the true daily story we face
Good Luck women ;)

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Reality of Life Part 9 : Depression can cause of low motivation esteem

Hello Guys..
Today want to talk about Depression can cause of low motivation esteem. This is the reality of life that we face nowadays. What is depression? for me depression is connect to our emotion like feel extremely sad for the shit things happen and feel lost.
I want to talk this because I also encounter this depression right now or sometimes..Well we a human being we will always encounter this "DEPRESSION" No Matter who are you, Your a Poor or Rich, Bad or Good, Stupid or Smart You will encounter the Depression.

Depression can cause from:-
-Family Matter
-Relationship either spouse, couple , friends or people surrounding
-Work
-Healthy
-Finance

Actually its hard to me to talk when come to personal matter because I don't want people know i'm in depression or in a crappy right now.Yes Honestly lots of people in FB,Instagram or youtube show  their life seem amazing but actually sometimes they are not. This is the life we have ups and down.There's no wrong for me for you to tell that im not ok and you are not ok.Now I feel so depress from relationship problem, my Mom problem, my mom have healthy problem so this month will always bring her go to hospital for appointment again. During her treatment I seldom go to work. No work no money, No money go die lah kan ^_^ ... Luckily I still have saving. So Moral of the story please do saving for your emergency time kan kan :)

Why I'm a the youngest daughter always get more depression if my Mother not well . Im so worried if anything happen to my mom.Recently she's got fever and bring her go to hospital and than doctor suspect my mom have a lung infection and need to eat medicine at least for a few month. I feel so depress with my condition right now.

But I still need to stay be calm. What I do I will pray, Sing, and talk with girl friends.
That's a women do when they have a depression in relationship or life.
But what about a man when they encounter a depression? sometimes when they feel depress they will tend to find a girl friend to talk or to get problem solve..Why not find a same gender? and the big problem is about a man they sometimes can't control their self , the most bad ever they want to do is suicide.OMG! O_O
I think this is not a man, this is a boy. Who Run and Hide.

Bad things about Depression:
☞It can cause of low motivation esteem. Don't feel like do anything because everything will going wrong.
☞You will quite from post ,write on any your channel anymore. Its not mean you have no idea, Idea is there but when you feel sad you will stop everything.
☞You seldom take a picture for your own because you hate yourself
☞Sometimes you will have a devil thinking "Suicide". Die seems as an solution for depression.
☞It will Ruin your successful / Job because we will run from this problem or from to meet people surrounding until we get better. For the time being we hide our self there's a lot of opportunities we miss out.
☞We feel useless and give up. We tend to stay in the room with no lamp or light. Alone. Sleeping or lay down like a dead body like there's no more tomorrow.
☞The bad things about depression is when you don't know what makes you feel depress. You will feel moody and don't want to talk with others. Every single day feel everything feel shit and wrong.OMG how hard this feeling.Only God now.

There's a good things when you encounter the Depression. OMG Depression pun ada benda bagus ka pasal depression ni.. This is my opinion only..what I face during in depression.
☞Sometimes we complaint why we have no time for ourself?When i can have time for myself?? so this is the time!you have more time for yourself that you most want to be before this. Mostly When you happy You will always do outside activity , so during depression you tend to be home and do your own things.
☞Sometimes when we in depression we will like to hear to motivation channel to heal our self, to get up back again because we think we cannot be like this always.
☞This is the time to remember God because if we sad this is the time to back to basic, with remember God we will find the peace inside. Well as a human being when you feel happy you will forgot your God and where you come from. Just think during depression is God is calling. ⊙﹏⊙
☞Once we can get up from this depression we can become more stronger than before.

So How we solve this depression:

Everybody have their own depress but please don't stay too long in depression. It can call unhealthy depression. A long depression is a big mistake , we will finish our time with depression.The Depression will always there if you don't want to get our from that. Like you live in the small room and never go out from that room. Apa kamu rasa sesak nafas bah kan. So don't stay in that room get out and get a fresh air.come on Gaban kamu bole baitu!

To Those who still wake up from Depression I'm very proud of them because its not easy to wake up. Only You are very strong person and high Motivate person, can heal themself. IM PROUD OF YOU BEB!KEEP IT UP.Together we wake up from this Bullshit depression. same to me I want to be a happy life again. Hope everything fine.Even we have a problem but don't always stay in depression. Its not good for health, go outside do outdoor activity, find your friends (for a married one or couple , if you are under depression better find your friend same gender! this is to prevent your spouse or couple being feel not right ,so nope.

So! how hard we feel we must try to be chill and cool.Living in drowning everyday its not the way we live. So,Don't think to much.. Go sing it can help to release a lot from depression Trust me :D

Good Luck to Those who feel depress right now, because we are same ok!
its ok to tell people that we are not ok than they are seem not.. १✌˚◡˚✌५
but we need to work out on it,we must cheer up back, try to wake up again.
The easy way  to cheer up everyday you need go to sing..don't go anywhere first, go to sing first. If you don't know how to sing, go to google store download JOOX, its a free music and anytime and find your favorite song and sing, Because what the best JOOX in you can get your song lyric there , than from that you can sing lah da da da da da daaa........

So This the JOOX apps I mean..

So please don't listen to sad song, and please listen to happy song, because song  can influence your mind. If you listen to sad song you will more sad sad sad sad sad than happy so please no sad song...

and another song apps you must download is SMULE. You sing there like karaoke, You can join sing with your friend or even with your favorite artist.. wow sound seems cool right (✿◠‿◠)

Nice Apps. No Need to be perfect in singing yang penting Happy!

Download this in Google apps store 

ALHAMDULILLAH,now mom still carry on to eat medicine but she's ok so far now.  I've become strong, have time to Pray,close myself with God and lastly sing a song I like. Every morning I wake up I still alive. God Bless you all.Thank You Allah. (◠‿◠✿)
So its too late already （ミ￣ー￣ミ）, need to wake up at 3.30am for sahur.•(⌚_⌚)•
Wish you all Happy Fasting Month. Semoga Sentiasa di permudahkan dan di berkati Selalu.Amin


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